Communication and collaboration
INTPs are deep, private and independent, rarely forthcoming, especially emotionally as they don’t really ‘get’ emotions as they are just so logical, and emotions don’t really compute. Getting close to an INTP would take a little time, as although they’re friendly enough, they are quite formal and too much people time, especially if that is small talk or chitchat, would irritate them and they will withdraw. INTPs also love immersing themselves in complex problems, thinking things fully through and coming up with innovative solutions and so in those times, they will rarely surface and may even get annoyed if anyone, as they would see it, ‘intrudes’ on their space and they will close it down. So, this makes INTPs difficult to know, especially initially, as they will relate in sporadic bursts. They certainly won’t relate at a more emotional level and will value rational argument and evidence and dismiss feelings as a bit woolly.
INTPs tend to be full on or full off in that if they’re interested in something they will engage and actually become talkative and animated, often surprising those who have had experienced their minimalistic approach. Debate and discussion, on topics that are of interest will stimulate them, but if it’s more tedious issues they’ll withdraw. They are quite formal and, although they will break rules, that will be other peoples’ rules and they will have a deep set of personal values which if crossed would bring out a very sharp response. They are blunt to the point of being bone-jarringly direct but this is not for its own sake but because they prefer, and demand, absolute clarity and if you ask their opinion, you’ll get it, raw and unvarnished, in the most ‘economic’ way possible, short and to the point.
INTPs like to think things through and chew them over, so if you demand an immediate answer it may well be “no!” They love complexity and seeing patterns in things and will come up with some genuinely ground-breaking innovations. But it all needs to be thought-through and that takes time, and quiet private time at that so any noise or distractions or chatter would interfere with that process would be dealt with, swiftly. They have immense powers of concentration if they are interested in something. Once they have arrived at a decision it will usually be the right one as a great deal of thought will have gone into it. Those less close to the INTP may well see a decision as a snap decision as they won’t have experienced all the effort that has gone into it. It’s like when we learn Math at school and we get the answer right, but the teacher wants to see how we got there, all the workings out, and that’s what you won’t get with the deep thinking, private INTP, but boy when they decide, they decide and get on with it.
INTPs quite like a bit of conflict, not for its own sake but because it clears the air more quickly and means they can get on again, but in private. The idea of endless conversation or skirting round an issue would incense the INTP who doesn’t have time for, as they’d see it, “such niceties,” get it said in the fastest time frame possible and get on. So, is an INTP overly blunt, well, yes, but not to harm anyone or to cause upset, though they wouldn’t really mind if they did as they don’t tune into feelings, that would be a bit of an alien concept to the INTP, it is more about keeping chat to a minimum and not getting distracted. INTPs are also a little sceptical, some say cynical, and too much chat or hanging around would make them think: “what are they after?”